"Buddy"
January 1996 - September
16, 2004
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"That
Buddy is a handsome Boy!" |
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Buddy
Boy -aka: Buddy O Boy, Fuddy D, Fuddy D Duddy, Sweet Lips,
Playboy Buddy Rodgers, Stinky Buddy Booty Butt.
Buddy
was a half shepard/ half lab and tan with white on his chest
- a black muzzle, black circles around his eyes, big tall
ears and light brown eyes.
Handsome, laid back, 98lbs, 8 years old - good with animals,
adults and kids. He would never run away - even if given
the opportunity. He loved to lay on the grass when my husband
worked in the yard. He loved early morning walks, joy rides,
and playing with black lab girlfriend Blackie. (she was
fixed, Buddy was neutered).
Buddy followed a neighbors son home after the St. Patricks
Day Parade as a pup. They had a beagle and could not keep
the dog. Nobody claimed the dog. My daughter had been wanting
a dog for some time (she was 6 years old at the time). The
kids went over after the parade to play with the pup and
brought him here. He was going to be a big dog I could tell.
However, he was such a laid back pup! My daughters friend
said his name should be Buddy because he wants to be everybodys
buddy. The name stuck.
On
Aug. 24th 2004 I took Buddy to the vet for his check up.
The clerk behind the counter asked me if I wanted the heartworm
pills or shot. "I didnt know they made a shot"
I said - the clerk said it was good for 6 months. I said
"well my dog stays in most of the time" the clerk
told me "well it only takes one mosquito" (I knew
that) "how much is it?" I asked. Same price as
the pills. "Well, I said maybe it would be ok since
I am not all that good about giving Buddy his pills on time."
"Any side effects?" I asked. "None reported"
the clerk said. OK - I guess he can have it . (my daughter
who is now 14 was with me) With that the vet gave Buddy
all his shots and told me maybe I should get his teeth cleaned
sometime in the next year. With that said & done, we
went home.
Now
my dog Buddy was a big dog but he sure was not a big eater.
He always chewed his food. Only liked meat, cheese, and
eggs for extra treats (you know special things). If you
put a bowl of beef stew in front of hime he would eat all
the meat and lick the gravy off every potato pea & carrot
in his bowl. Never cared for a veggie at all. If you gave
him a hot dog - he would gingerly take it from your hand
- take it off and chew it up. He only liked soft treats
like snausages and never cared for hard dog biscuts. He
never cared for rawhide bones either. We got a kick out
of Buddy eating part of his food and "saving the rest
for later" We commented on how Buddy took good care
of himself.
"That
Buddy is a handsome Boy!"
Now August is a hot and humid month around here and Buddy
(who stays in the AC) always ate less around those hot months.
About a week after his vet visit he threw up 2 or 3 times
in the house. I thought "darn, I should have dumped
his food (he got fed inside), it sat out too long and made
him sick". The following days he didnt eat that much....
but still ate. A few days after the vomiting episode - my
husband came home from work and noticed a big wet spot on
the rug. Since there wasn't an odor he thought one of the
kids dumped a glass of water on the rug and were not fessing
up to it. I said well you know Buddy didnt want to go out
this morning. I didn't think anything of it because my daughter
would let him out before school. (I have to be at work at
7 am) then i said I bet he didn't go out at all and this
happened. Again oh well - I will make sure he goes out tomorrow
morn.
The
next morning........ rain. Buddy didn't want to go out.
I put him out anyway. He stood right at the back door just
staring. OK Buddy come on in - He peed in the same spot
while I was getting ready for work. Now I'm mad. Buddy you
mean you are getting so lazy you cant pee outside anymore?
Whats wrong with you? Right after that episode he stopped
eating treats and all - I noticed he was drinking alot of
water and losing weight. I told my husband - I better take
Buddy to the vet. I made the appointment the next day. I
took Buddy in that afternoon. I had my mom sit with him
during the day because "Buddy didnt feel well".
The
vet detected a heart murmur and wanted chest x rays and
blood work. She said he may be having a reaction to his
heartworm shot - she sent him home with steroids and a couple
of cans of special food. She said she would get in touch
with the manufacturer of the shot Ft Dodge. This is when
I found out that his injection was Pro Heart 6 - before
that I thought it was just a liquid form of HeartGuard -
the meds he was on before. She said Ft Dodge would probably
pay for his tests and would probably want additional tests.
Could I have him back at 9:00 am. "Sure I said"
I took Buddy back to the vet the next morning. The poor
guy did not want to get out of the car at all. If I opened
one door he went over to the other side. Never had he done
this before. I dropped him off and when I picked him up
later I was advised that his red blood cell count was dropping
and he should spend the weekend in the ER vet. because he
would probably need a transfusion. and oh yes Ft. Dodge
reimbursed me the 200 plus dollars I had paid the day before
and the vet did not charge me for his testing that day.
(I was warned that I would have to pay for the ER vet) OK,
I have my charge card.
They
faxed Buddy's paperwork and I carried his xrays to the ER
vet. When I got him there the vet told me about the Auto
Immune disease and if his blood count drops to 15% they
would like to do a transfusion. I agreed and paid almost
500.00 (this was good for the weekend and up to 3 transfusions).As
soon as I got in my car and headed down the street my cell
phone rang. It was the ER vet. Buddy's blood count had dropped
to 15% and they would like to do the transfusion. I agreed.
Now
all this time I am thinking - Buddy will get his transfusion
- his meds - and go home - more frail ..... but home.
I called that night, Buddy was doing ok... running a bit
of a fever and sleeping. The next day I went to see him
took him outside to pee and brought him back in. I had to
get a prescription filled at a drugstore for Buddy. I took
it to Eckards. The clerk behind the counter asked if I had
been there before - I said no. She then asked me if I had
an insurance card. I said I wish... it's for my dog. So
I took his $53.00 prescription back to the ER vet and went
home. That evening the vet called and said Buddy needed
another transfusion I gave them the OK That night I called
to see how he was - he was sleeping and they were going
to draw blood at 1:00 - 1:30 AM. I get a call that Buddy's
fever is higher than it had been since he had been there
and his abdomen was in pain. They were giving him some pain
meds and an internest would be in there the next morning
and he would do an ultrasound of Buddy's abdomen.
I
was distraught - I thought Buddy would die that night. I
didn't go to bed till 4:30 and I had to get up at 5:30.
I got permission to carry my cell phone at work. I visited
Buddy that afternoon. His temp was normal and I took him
outside to pee - the internest found a spot on Buddys liver,
but did not feel it was an effect of his condition. I called
that night - Buddy was sleeping. I called the next morn
and visited that afternoon.
That
day Buddy looked perky - he perked up when he heard the
car keys jingle and "Buddy want to go for a walk?".
The next day I visited Buddy and he didn't look so good.
The next day - the vet called me in the afternoon. He said
I need to think about making a decision. The only thing
they could do for Buddy was to give him an Oxyglobin transfusion
(fake blood) and that this is not a cure, just a way to
put oxygen in his body while they still try to help him.
However, he had a reaction to the last transfusion and didn't
know how Buddy would do. His blood count is down to 14%
and has been dropping about 2 points a day.
In
tears....... I asked if this would work. The vet said it
didn't look good for him because he had been on an IV for
so long - his other organs were starting to feel the effects
of this. On the other hand, this may be what he needs. However
I was faced with having him have a bad reaction and not
making it at all. He told me to talk it over with my family
and call back if Iwanted the treatment. I asked him if I
didn't treat him at all..... would he be around the next
day. He told me his blood count was dropping slow so he
probably would be here tomorrow, but of course no guarantee.
I
knew at that point what had to be done. I told the vet I
can't beleive this is happening. "Can I bring him home
to die?" He did not recommened it. He said with this
disease - the body is robbed of oxygen and you suffocate
to death. Kind of like asthema - euthanazia would be the
more humane way for Buddy.
In tears....... I told my family what had to be done and
it had to be done that night - that I had put Buddy through
all he could handle and he just couldn't take anymore.
I called the ER vet and told them of my decision and we
were on our way. They asked what I wanted to do with the
body - I told them I wanted him creamated. "Privately?"
Yes privatetly. OK. we work through so and so and can add
that charge to your bill. "Are they a reputible company?"
Yes they work out of so and so funeral home.
We got to the ER vet and they laid a blanket on the floor
- they then brought in Buddy he could still walk and he
laid right down. The clerk told us to let us know when we
were ready. We petted, hugged and wept on Buddy. I could
tell his breathing was becoming labored. I knew it was right
to let him go. After about 20 min to half an hour ( I took
a couple of last photos) I sent for the vet. Buddy already
had an IV cath. in his hind leg. The vet explained the proceedue.
Buddys head was on my daughters lap. We were all petting
him and I was telling him what a good sweet boy he was.
"You're
a sweet boy - yes, you are, you're my sweet Buddy Boy -
yes you are. I love you sweet lips".
My
daughter was sobbing, I asked if they wanted to stay in
the room - yes they did. The vet administered the first
injection, the one that puts him to sleep. Buddy lifted
his head and looked around. My daughter later commented
on that and I told her I know I saw - like Buddy was saying
" hey whats going on? I'm not suppose to feel like
this my family is here!".
Then
he laid his head down the second shot was given and with
that Buddys 8 joyous years on this earth came to an end.
We closed his eyes .... I was still telling him how much
I loved him and with that I paid my bill (all total over
2800.00) and went home........ a zombie.
Physically, emotionally and financially drained.
I picked up Buddy's ashes yesterday and he will have a prominent
place on the mantel. His picture will be posted in the newspaper
under pet obits. I sent a thank you card to the ER vet with
a picture of Buddy when he was in all his splendor - 98
lb handsome boy, so they could see what he really looked
like - not the sick, frail and thin boy that they tried
to save.
Oh,
how I wish I had been given one percaution - I would still
have my Buddy Boy today - my sweet handsome boy.
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